“When people say “Let it go,” what they really mean is “Get over it,” and that’s not a helpful thing to say. It’s not a matter of letting go – you would if you could. Instead of “Let it go,” we should probably say “Let it be”; this recognizes that the mind won’t let go and the problem may not go away, and it allows you to form a healthier relationship with what’s bothering you.” Jon Kabat-Zinn
It’s not what happens, but how we relate to what happens that determines the quality of our lives. What do you need to let be? What’s you argument with life all about? What would it look like for you to develop a healthier relationship to what’s bothering you?